Posts Tagged With: Reactive dog

What’s going on (oh, what’s going on)…

It’s been too long since I wrote last.

I had Kedric’s blood and urine ran a couple weeks ago, just to make sure the Rimadyl he’s on wasn’t affecting his liver or kidneys, and found out that he’s got something else wrong with him. We aren’t sure what yet. Vet dropped the C-word on me as a possibility. The specific gravity of his urine is at below a kidney failure level. She says you usually only see those levels with infections, like e. Coli, or cancer, but it could be a few other things. He is on 10 days of antibiotics right now, to see if it is an infection. We go back in on Monday for another urinalysis, and if it looks the same, we move onto the next thing… Really hoping things look better when we go back in. 😦 He’s been playing and acting completely normal. I would have never known there was an issue had I not had his urine ran. So time will tell on that…

Rowan is still a handful. I took her to the vet clinic recently for the first time, and she did okay. Not amazing, but not terrible. No barking or growling or crazy behavior, but she was overwhelmed by the number of dogs and people, and when anyone reached for her she shied away, which was okay. The dogs were everywhere, and she was intimidated by them. There was a little poodle-cross wearing a jacket that she was unsure of, and at one point tried to nip it, but she did it slow enough that I could give a leash and voice correction. Then she tried to nip at a little Pug, and all it took was a voice correction that time, and she shut her mouth and acted friendly toward the dog again. Pushing her limits, I think, just to see what she can get away with. Little shit. We stayed until she was a bit more relaxed around all the commotion, and then before I could get to the, “This is going good, let’s stay a bit longer and see how she does” stage (which is just setting a reactive dog up for failure), we left. It wasn’t perfect, but it was okay. Better to leave on a good note. She even met a standard poodle and an ENORMOUS Great Dane while we were there. She’s only met two Danes while walking before, and was terrified of them. This guy was standing still, so she walked up to him to sniff him and check him out, but whenever he would move, she would jump back away from him. At least she felt okay enough with him to approach and sniff. The biggest Dane I’ve seen in years, too. We’ll take what we can get when it comes to good experiences with strange dogs.

The RV project has been kind of sidelined while dealing with Kedric, since I don’t have money for his medical bills AND the RV. It’s one or the other. Which sucks, because it would be SO much easier to deal with visiting the vet if the RV was up and going, because my vet is a 15 to 20-minute drive away, and I currently have no car.

So since I’m not doing a WHOLE lot with the RV, I’ve been doing more inside the house. I have my first officially empty closet, as of 2 days ago. I was so excited about the empty closet that I stood and stared at it… Closing the door, then opening it back up just to see the emptiness. *lol* I’ve been slowly working my way through the little tedious stuff, and I am getting there. I condensed all my first aid kits down, and have been sorting through my other collections… Pens, stationery, clothes, bandannas, beanies, and crafts. I went through what I call my “emergency kits”, which most people would refer to as bug-out bags, and wrote a list of everything I have in them, so I can compare those lists to the lists I have on my computer, that tell me what I SHOULD have in them. I have a bag for me, and a bag for the dogs. There is a list of things I will need in the RV, and a list of things I need in the emergency bags. I enjoy (way too much) looking through the lists at what I have already (almost everything) and what I need (not much). I can’t wait until I’m finally done here at the house, and I can organize the totes that will be going into the RV.

I have some random stuff that needs to go out to the RV already, but I don’t want to put anything in it until after I get the wipers worked on. You just never know what people will decide to steal… I’ve been to too many repair shops that have warnings posted telling you they aren’t responsible for anything in your vehicle. I’m not sure if that means people stealing from the parking lots, or people who actually work there… But I’ll err on the side of caution.

My roommate’s friend wants to move in here when I move out, so that’s the current plan. He has a lease on his current apartment until the end of April, so at this point, that’s what I’m shooting for. I have almost all of my kitchen stuff packed up, except for the stuff I use all the time, and the stuff I will want in the RV. Since my roomie is a messy dude, things tend to disappear into the void of his bedroom. So as things like my silverware slowly appear in the kitchen, I’ve been washing them and packing them, so they can’t disappear again. *lol* I have also extended the offer to shampoo his bedroom carpet before I go, both to leave the house the best that I can, and also because if he has to drag everything out of his room, all my missing silverware is more likely to make an appearance. 😀

Today I made a list of all of the ingredients I have in my kitchen pantry so that I can start looking up recipes online to use them all on. There are some items I use all the time, and some that are so bizarre, I’ve only used a handful of times, if even that much. So I am aiming to use up as much of the “weird” kitchen ingredients as I can in the next 2 1/2 months, so the only things I’ll be packing into the RV are items that I am likely to use frequently while on the road. The dogs are going to be stoked. I have a whole list of strange flours that I am planning to make into dog bones. Oat, rice, spelt, almond, flaxseed, barley, etc. The kitchen is going to be an interesting place for the next little while! 🙂

And just because I know you are going to be as impressed and awestruck as I was by the sight (okay… probably not), here’s my very first empty closet! 😀

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Hope life is treating everyone well, and that you’re working toward your dreams! 🙂

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Slowly But Surely

I’m kind of torn between wanting to update this frequently, and not wanting to post nothing but dog training. Currently I am working with the puppy (now named Rowan) every day, but have not been working much on the RV, so I feel like that’s all I’d be doing. The puppy is learning and doing better. Not reacting as much, but still has obvious issues. She wants to eat the cats, has not learned the art of “Quiet” very well yet, and does still react to my roommate and one of his friends (although that also seems to be improving). I don’t think I mentioned this, but she did nip my roommate’s friend a couple weeks ago. He was one of the people she tried to bite when she was new here. She’s taken quite a while to get over her issues with my roommate, and she’s still not there 100%, so I figure it’s going to take quite a while for her to get over her issues with this friend, because she doesn’t see him as often. He had been over to visit, and it was the first time she’d seen him since the day he kept trying to pet her after she’d warned him to leave her alone and she snapped at him. So this time, she ran up to him, and he reached down quickly to cover himself, and it spooked her. She jumped back away from him, then jumped back in and nipped his pant leg. It was closed-mouthed, and she just pinched a tiny bit of the jeans, but it was still very upsetting for me. I am not sure if she went in with the intent to bite in the first place, or if she only decided to bite once she got spooked. It happened too quickly. So I’ve been wary of letting her near him ever since. She needs to get over her issue with him, because he comes over frequently, and I’d rather not play interference. He is very sad that she doesn’t like him because he loves dogs, and wants to be her friend. She’s seen him twice since the nip, and did not try to bite him either time, although she was not comfortable with him either time. The second time she saw him was today, when I was outside working on my RV. He was carrying a computer, and she barked and barked at him as he walked through the yard, then circled him, sniffing the air around him, and then turned her attention to my roommate, who was leaving the house behind his friend. I thought it was pretty ballsy of the friend to walk through the yard with her loose out there. I don’t know why he didn’t tell me he was coming so I could grab her, but I was relieved that she didn’t try to attack him.

On our walks, she has been pretty good. Definitely needs improvement in just about everything, but she isn’t reacting to cyclists, runners, skateboarders, or strangers with insanity anymore. Some people she is wary of, and will cross behind me to walk on the opposite side as they pass, then she wants to sniff the air behind them. Most people she walks calmly past and (mostly) ignores though. She gets treated for all good behavior around strangers. People she’s met before and had good interactions with, she is a crazy excited puppy toward when we run across them again. Lots of new people passing seem to see her and want to make friends, since she still looks like a puppy. Most of them she is shy with, stepping back from their outstretched hands, then she steps back in and licks them or lets them pet her, and then instantly turns away from them (if they are someone she is unsure of), to direct her attention back to me, because I give her tons of praise and treats for good interactions with strangers, or she jumps all over the place like a complete lunatic 6-month-old puppy (if they are someone she’s decided she really digs).

I’ve been trying to only have good interactions with dogs as well, but they’re such wild cards. You never know what you’re going to get as people are approaching you. Yesterday I was walking my usual route when suddenly there was a loose dog on the sidewalk. A little Pit-Hound looking mix. The owners saw me coming, their dog was off leash, and they acted like everything was fine. And then the dog approached Kedric with all raised hair, passed him by to get to Rowan, and then proceeded to growl at her and try to jump on her (twice). WTH? Why would you let your dog approach strange dogs if he has aggression issues? NOT the experiences I’m looking for with a fearful pup! We have had some good experiences with larger dogs, but for the most part, she’s pretty scared around them, until they get to know each other well… And who has times to sit and let dogs get to know each other as you’re passing someone on a walk? But little dogs she LOVES. She goes all crazy for them, and wants to play, and I have to hold her back, because I don’t want her to jump on them and hurt them. She likes to play tag with Stella, the little Chi-something that lives in our apartments, and she REALLY wants to play with Sam, the Jack/Rat mix, but he’s an old man, so he doesn’t put up with her shenanigans for long. So at least I know, for my own references, that she needs more exposure to good-natured, well-trained larger dogs.

So basically, I’ve been doing nothing but eat, sleep, shower, work, and dog training for the last month. My brain is tired. I need a serious vacation from work, some kind of recovery period. It also sucks because I can never let my guard down with this pup. Today, as I was leaving the back yard, she slipped out before I could grab her, and was intent on not being caught. Scary moments, for sure. When she’s in the house, the only place she can be off-leash is in my room. The door has to be closed because she flies over the large baby gate like a Grand Prix horse… Or should I say she used to, until she crashed the gate trying to get to one of the cats, and broke it in half. Until she is trustworthy with the cats, the roommate, and recalls, she cannot be let off leash outside of my room though. So I’m pretty much thinking she’ll probably be on leash in the rest of the house until we move into the RV. Which is a pain in the ass. When I take a shower, she has to go in her kennel, because I can’t trust her to not chew shit up, and I can’t leave her outside in the yard, because I view her as a liability (and don’t trust people to keep the gate closed). I’m just getting to the point where I will SOMETIMES leave her out of the kennel for a couple hours in the morning, after she’s went out to potty, and before I’m ready to get out of bed, but I can’t sleep well then, because I’m constantly checking to see what she’s into. She is the BIGGEST pain in the ass.

So I’ve been looking into trainers with different philosophies online. Basically, I am an eclectic kind of girl, and I like trainers who are the same way. There are a whole lot of training methods I look at as either evil, or completely unrealistic. I need to find a happy medium. I just ordered some Michael Ellis DVD’s. Expensive as hell, but I really dig him. The more I see of him, the more I like him. He makes sense. He has great energy, and gives the dogs the benefit of the doubt, treating every one as an individual. Highly skilled marker trainer, but also believes that it’s okay to tell your dog when they’re doing something wrong, rather than ignoring it and hoping your dog figures out the right way. Let’s be honest, folks. I don’t have 20 years for my dog to decide that she’d rather not do the things I don’t want her doing. I may be wrong (I’m not), but I’m pretty sure that Border Collies are considered the smartest breed in the world. So I’m pretty sure my dog understands when I say, “Hey, I don’t like that behavior,” and she isn’t going to be in mortal fear of me the rest of her life. I can disagree with behaviors without the relationship that I have with my dog bursting into flames. Really, who thinks this shit up? (Maybe they just have ultra-sensitive dogs that they’ve over-corrected?)

I despise clicker training. Don’t get me wrong – I think marker training is AMAZING. But the clicker itself drives me nuts. I could NOT listen to that damn thing all day. Maybe my hearing is just sensitive, but clickers seem SO loud to me, and who has the extra hand for that? I have a bag of treats on one hand, and a crazy, reactive dog in the other. I am not an octopus.  I can hear people using a clicker a block away from my house. Dogs have amazing hearing. Who designed these things to be so damn loud?? So I love marker training philosophy, and will stick with it, because it is undeniably the best training method out there, but until I start to go deaf, you will never see me using a clicker. I will also continue to tell my dog, “Nope, that’s not right”, and I roll my eyes at the people who say that is a terrible mistake. Maybe they’ve never owned a dog with such a high-functioning brain?

Anywho, yeah. So this is my brain lately… Dog training, dog issues, dog reactivity, what we need to work on next, what skills need improved on, what tools I need to have for the next step, etc. It gets pretty boring, believe me. There are days I’d rather just sleep all day, and maybe read a book later. But time is critical. Rowan just turned 6 months, and I feel like the closer she gets to adulthood, the harder it’s going to be to change her innate reactions, and fear-based behaviors. So for now, my brain is in doggie overdrive, and dammit, I’m tired.

The winter is supposed to be officially rolling in… oh, 36 minutes ago. We’re supposed to have a day-and-a-half-long snowstorm to kick things off. So I got the dogs walked this morning, then finished sealing almost every seam I had left on the RV (there are like 3 things that need redone, but nothing that some rain or snow could hurt), then put the tarp on top. I still haven’t gotten around to resealing the roof. I need a skinny person to hop around up there for me for that project, and all the skinny people I know have been busy, so it will probably just have to wait until spring. But the tarp is on, so I’m not so concerned about that.

When Em was here last, we tried to figure out what the deal with the washer fluid was. All the tubes seem to be in decent shape, and there is some suction in the tubes… just not enough to generate fluid spraying onto the windshield. Rather than bother with tearing shit apart that I know nothing about, I’m probably just going to take it in and have it fixed. Maybe the motor is dying. Or maybe there is a pinched or cracked line somewhere down in the engine compartment. I don’t know.

So I have to get the washer fluid fixed, get it inspected/licensed/registered, and I’m considering reupholstering the cushions to make them a color I like (and because the top bunk upholstery is falling apart in the center, where people have slid off the bed). Then a tune-up and oil change and whatever other basics I need, and she’ll be good to go.

I have a list of the things I am going to need while on the road that has been on my computer for years, and I am just now starting to go through it and color code everything, so that I will know what I have, what I need more of, and what I don’t have at all. It’s pretty exciting. 🙂 I brought in my emergency bags tonight so that I could go through them and make lists of what was in them, so I will know what I need to add into them… I do like to be prepared. 🙂 (Girl Scout for life!!) (Yes, I’m a nerd.) 😀

I tried to get a happy family picture the other day when I was raking leaves in the back yard… Here’s how that turned out. (Kedric’s face says it all).

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And here’s Flash with the tarp on, ready for winter!

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And until I can really get on the ball with my exercise program, I’m not even going to bore you with the details. Been so busy with this crackhead puppy that my exercise routine has been put on the backburner. But that’s temporary, I swear! 🙂

Hope everyone’s having a great night.

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